While having more choices statistically increases the likelihood of identifying desirable partners, it bears noting that having too much choice can negatively affect daters’ mentality.
Interview-based research has identified a “kid in a candy store” phenomenon, whereby some online daters report that they are less likely to commit to a relationship and work through hurdles when they know there are always other options easily available. It is possible that some daters do find better matches when they have larger pools of partners, whereas others fall prey to the allure of always looking for someone better.
But, she got some free stuff out of the deal at his expense.
With on-line, I can look at her profile and see exactly what she is looking for so I don't need to waste time and money on her, if she's not looking for someone like me. We had nothing to lose by saying honestly, “This is who I am.” It’s been written that a person can say anything online; and you can never know whether he (or she) is as presented.
This issue is compounded for those looking for love later in life, when their social circles tend to be made predominantly of other couples.
Online dating substantially expands the pool of available partners, allowing singles to connect with greater numbers of people, many of whom they wouldn’t have met in their everyday lives.
Finally, research shows that online daters tend to be wealthier and more highly educated than traditional daters.
I can also look at her "friends" guys that she accepts as friends on her profile. I suppose, for some, that that is the case; they relish playing a role, pulling wool over unsuspecting eyes.
If they're a bunch of scuz-bags, I know to stay away from her.
However, scientific research does not support it, at least when it comes to personality compatibility.
That is, there is no evidence that extroverts are best matched with introverts, or people who are open to experience prefer others who are also open to experience.